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Chapter I-6:  Greetings and Respect in Dagbon

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Greetings and festivals; the importance of greetings; how Dagbamba greet; greetings and respect; greetings to different types of people: chiefs, rich people, maalams; gifts and gift-giving; messengers and greeting; greetings in the household; greetings to in-laws; greetings during the festival months; how Dagbamba greet their friends in different villages; how Dagbamba receive one another in greetings



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Supplementary material

Images

Squatting to greet an elder


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Contents outline and links by paragraph

Importance of greetings in Dagbon

Morning greetings in the house and neighborhood

Festival day greetings

Eldership and greetings

Greetings to friends

Greetings and respect

Greetings to money person

Greetings to an old person

Greetings to maalams

Respect to chief of drummers

Conclusion



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Proverbs and Sayings

Greetings are white heart.

Greetings are:  you give trust to your friend.

Greetings are:  you give respect to your friend.

If somebody gets pain and people also see his fault, it's not sweet.

The greeting of the festival day is the end or the last of all the greetings, because inside it, you greet one another and you beg God for blessings for one another.

The festival day stands that everyone should do good to one another.

A householder does not roam on the festival day.

If a child visits you, you must also visit the child.

God should let you come to wash your hands upon us.

It is good when you go to greet a friend, and you know of women.

Inside friendship is greeting.

When you have a friend, it is good he knows your house and you also know his house.

Come and greet me is better than I will be talking about you.

To be greeting people is like giving a gift.  When you give a gift, your hand will stretch and be open.  greetings do not end.

If your friend farts on you, and you say you will also fart on him, if you don't take time, you will shit on yourself.

“How is the market?” is not friendship.

Money people take their friends to show themselves to others; they don't use their family.

If a money person doesn't want to help people, we say that his money is not money; it is useless.

You should give a gift inside your house before you give outside.

In Dagbon here, we call an old man “everybody's old man.”



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